Real Talk: Living with the opposite sex?

[TheBoss]

Could you have a roomate that wasn't your hubby/wife or even boyfriend/girlfriend and was a member of the opp. sex? Would it stay strictly plutonic?

For most guys, it would depend on how she looks, for most girls it would depend on how they feel towards him.

I would'nt have a problem living with a guy. I think I would feel more comfortable though if he was just a random roomate and not a guy-friend.

Originally Posted by TheBoss

Could you have a roomate that wasn't your hubby/wife or even boyfriend/girlfriend and was a member of the opp. sex? Would it stay strictly plutonic?

For most guys, it would depend on how she looks, for most girls it would depend on how they feel towards him.

i like how u put it depends on how she looks for the guy,and how she feels for the girl..cuz thats how it works.um i think i can do it, i wuldnt wanna hook up with someone i live with cuz it'll get too complicated, i think it'll be a harder situation for the guy if she looks good

[TheBoss]

Originally Posted by diamond.zuri

I would'nt have a problem living with a guy. I think I would feel more comfortable though if he was just a random roomate and not a guy-friend.

you dont think the friendship would make it easier?

[TheBoss]

Originally Posted by StarReeZy

i like how u put it depends on how she looks for the guy,and how she feels for the girl..cuz thats how it works.um i think i can do it, i wuldnt wanna hook up with someone i live with cuz it'll get too complicated, i think it'll be a harder situation for the guy if she looks good

I know some guys that were able to do it, and it worked, but most said it made things uncomfortable with any girl they were dating.

Originally Posted by TheBoss

you dont think the friendship would make it easier?

No. He would get on my nerves and we wouldn't be friends anymore OR one (or both ) of us might get the dumb idea that we are made for each other. If I don't know him will more than likely be a "hey" and "bye" type of thing. Much easier.

Originally Posted by diamond.zuri

No. He would get on my nerves and we wouldn't be friends anymore OR one (or both ) of us might get the dumb idea that we are made for each other. If I don't know him will more than likely be a "hey" and "bye" type of thing. Much easier.

i feel u on saying that if he were ur friend he'd get on ur nerves,but if its a stranger and hes SEXY you'd be curious,its human nature,i can live wit a guy and totally not even think about him like that,but hey if u get the dumb idea that you're made for each other..um u probably are?? lol IT IS WAT IT IS! haha

Originally Posted by TheBoss

I know some guys that were able to do it, and it worked, but most said it made things uncomfortable with any girl they were dating.

yeah of course it'd make their girl feel uncomfortable,i wouldnt like it..it can be done but its really risky if hes in a relationship..like lets be real..we are human..MEN are physical,its all circumstancial if its works.like there are lines of respect u cant cross,and personally i dont trust females that i dont kno..i have met too many hoooooeees! lol LA BITCHES CANT BE TRUSTED!!!!!!! haha its the same thing as guys and girls bein friends..u spend too much time together and it takes one sec for u too start looking at that person different.guys and girls who are friends that are close and always with each other..unless ur gay guess wat..IT DONT WORK!!!!!!! lol